[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/pomluvy-aneb-co-delat-kdyz-na-vas-ex-plive-spinu-za-vasimi-zady\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/pomluvy-aneb-co-delat-kdyz-na-vas-ex-plive-spinu-za-vasimi-zady\/","headline":"Pomluvy aneb co d\u011blat, kdy\u017e na V\u00e1s ex plive \u0161p\u00ednu za Va\u0161imi z\u00e1dy","name":"Pomluvy aneb co d\u011blat, kdy\u017e na V\u00e1s ex plive \u0161p\u00ednu za Va\u0161imi z\u00e1dy","description":"Billy Ray Cyrus zp\u00edv\u00e1 v p\u00edsni Achy Breaky Heart (Bolav\u00e9, zlomen\u00e9, srdce): ,,M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 \u0159\u00edct sv\u011btu, \u017ee jsi nikdy nebyla mou. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 sp\u00e1lit moje oble\u010den\u00ed a \u0159\u00edct sv\u00fdm kamar\u00e1dk\u00e1m, jak\u00fd jsem hlup\u00e1k. M\u016f\u017eete se mi sm\u00e1t do telefonu. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 \u0159\u00edct svoj\u00ed m\u00e1m\u011b, \u017ee jsem se odst\u011bhoval a po\u0161tvat proti m\u011b sv\u00e9ho psa." Co kdy\u017e se ale […]","datePublished":"2019-11-04","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0379e0c919e89f337c2f51ff1404922f8441b43281fb91f3719df99f70b9888f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"isso.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a361286_w3855_t1574595694.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a361286_w3855_t1574595694.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/pomluvy-aneb-co-delat-kdyz-na-vas-ex-plive-spinu-za-vasimi-zady\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":511,"articleBody":"Billy Ray Cyrus zp\u00edv\u00e1 v p\u00edsni Achy Breaky Heart (Bolav\u00e9, zlomen\u00e9, srdce): ,,M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 \u0159\u00edct sv\u011btu, \u017ee jsi nikdy nebyla mou. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 sp\u00e1lit moje oble\u010den\u00ed a \u0159\u00edct sv\u00fdm kamar\u00e1dk\u00e1m, jak\u00fd jsem hlup\u00e1k. M\u016f\u017eete se mi sm\u00e1t do telefonu. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 \u0159\u00edct svoj\u00ed m\u00e1m\u011b, \u017ee jsem se odst\u011bhoval a po\u0161tvat proti m\u011b sv\u00e9ho psa." Co kdy\u017e se ale skute\u010dn\u011b setk\u00e1me s \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd se n\u00e1m po rozchodu sna\u017e\u00ed zni\u010dit pov\u011bst? Pak se bezstarostn\u00e1 melodie p\u00edsni\u010dky m\u011bn\u00ed v krutou realitu, se kterou si nev\u00edme rady a kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s pomalu doh\u00e1n\u00ed k \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed.\t\tNereagujte\tN\u011bkdy je \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 reakce v\u016fbec ta nejlep\u0161\u00ed reakce. Pokud o V\u00e1s ex \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed pomluvy, ned\u011blejte sc\u00e9ny. Pr\u00e1v\u011b na tyto siln\u00e9 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdbuchy takov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk \u010dek\u00e1. Zachovejte klid a nereagujte ani na pomluvy, ani na ur\u00e1\u017eky \u010di na jin\u00e9 nevy\u017e\u00e1dan\u00e9 pokusy o spojen\u00ed se s V\u00e1mi. Pr\u00e1v\u011b o to se toti\u017e tento \u010dlov\u011bk sna\u017e\u00ed. Chce Va\u0161i pozornost a Va\u0161e emoce.\t \tPro\u010d je tento postup dobr\u00fd? \tMinim\u00e1ln\u011b si j\u00edm zachov\u00e1te dobrou tv\u00e1\u0159 a ostatn\u00ed V\u00e1s nebudou vn\u00edmat jako \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd neust\u00e1le \u0159e\u0161\u00ed minul\u00e9 vztahy a nedok\u00e1\u017ee se z nich vykroutit. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 reakce V\u00e1s uk\u00e1\u017ee v lep\u0161\u00edm, vyzr\u00e1lej\u0161\u00edm sv\u011btle. Hned bude jasn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdo je tady ob\u011b\u0165 a kdo emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed vyd\u011bra\u010d a nebude v\u016fbec t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 naklonit si k sob\u011b okol\u00ed.\t\tZm\u011b\u0148te to\tPokud n\u011bkomu nechcete v\u011bnovat \u010das, nemus\u00edte. Pokud se sna\u017e\u00edte \u0159e\u0161it ka\u017edi\u010dk\u00fd probl\u00e9m, d\u00e1v\u00e1te t\u00edmto postojem lidem nad sebou ohromnou moc. Naschv\u00e1ly a pomluvy se budou akor\u00e1t stup\u0148ovat.\t \tZd\u00e1nliv\u011b nepochopiteln\u00e9\tN\u011bkdy se m\u016f\u017ee dokonce st\u00e1t, \u017ee V\u00e1s ex kontaktuje v moment\u011b, kdy u\u017e \u017eije s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm. N\u011bkdy se zkr\u00e1tka cht\u011bj\u00ed n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 mst\u00edt a sabotovat V\u00e1\u0161 budouc\u00ed \u017eivot i Va\u0161e potencion\u00e1ln\u00ed vztahy.\t \tCo s t\u00edm?\tPokud c\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee by toto mohl b\u00fdt V\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edklad, pozor. Takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed je typick\u00e9 pro lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed vlastnit a manipulovat ostatn\u00ed. Jak ale poznat, \u017ee je ex nebezpe\u010dn\u00e1 osoba a nechce se prost\u011b jen vr\u00e1tit zp\u011bt?\t \tJak to poznat\t\u00e8 Promluvte si o ex s p\u0159\u00e1teli. Byli r\u00e1di, \u017ee jste se kone\u010dn\u011b roze\u0161li?\t\u00e8 Zavzpom\u00ednejte. C\u00edtili jste se ve vztahu \u010dasto vinni?\t\u00e8 Prov\u00e1zely V\u00e1\u0161 vztah \u010dast\u00e9 h\u00e1dky kon\u010d\u00edc\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00edm \u010di slovn\u00ed agres\u00ed?\t\u00e8 Opakovalo se ve vztahu podv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed nebo byl vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n sex jako zbra\u0148?\t \tPokud jste odpov\u011bd\u011bli alespo\u0148 na jednu ot\u00e1zku ANO, skute\u010dn\u011b zva\u017ete, zda neud\u011bl\u00e1te l\u00e9pe, kdy\u017e se od takov\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka odpout\u00e1te.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pomluvy aneb co d\u011blat, kdy\u017e na V\u00e1s ex plive \u0161p\u00ednu za Va\u0161imi z\u00e1dy","item":"https:\/\/www.isso.cz\/pomluvy-aneb-co-delat-kdyz-na-vas-ex-plive-spinu-za-vasimi-zady\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]